Two stacked blockers behind the frozen auto-stop, both found live after the
first two fixes let the timer finally tick:
- The stop used a whole-object Update while the same reconcile loop writes
status; that risks clobbering a concurrent status write. Switch to the
reaper's merge-patch pattern (spec.desiredState only; EmptySince is left for
markStopped to clear).
- The operator Role never carried minecraftservers:patch, so the call failed
closed with 403 (visible in the operator log as 'cannot update resource
"minecraftservers"'). Grant patch and pin it in the RBAC scope test.
With all three layers fixed, the auto-stop path is: timer persists (schema),
wake-up fires (requeue), spec write allowed (RBAC).
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