fix(velocity): 等待队列跟随服的启动进度，自动重试期间一直等并每分钟报进度，放弃或被停止时说明原因

docs/openapi.yaml

@@ -488,6 +488,16 @@ components:
             Present and true when the CR carries the label felis.lolicon.best/forwarding=legacy.
             The proxy then forwards this server's players BungeeCord-style in the handshake
             address instead of modern forwarding (Felis-Legacy Velocity fork only).
+        autoRestarts:
+          type: integer
+          format: int32
+          description: Present when non-zero; how often the operator recreated the pod of this start after it timed out (at most 3).
+        startGaveUp:
+          type: boolean
+          description: >-
+            Present and true for a Failed server no automatic retry will bring up: its
+            start timed out with the retries spent, or its spec is invalid. A Failed
+            server without it is still in its restart backoff and may come up on its own.
 
     FleetServer:
       description: One row of the fleet-wide admin read (internal/api/handlers_user.go fleetServerView).