feat(operator): implement idle auto-stop (spec §8)

Adds empty-server auto-stop to the reconciler. When Idle.AutoStopEnabled
is true and the RCON player tally is zero for EmptySecondsBeforeStop seconds,
the operator flips desiredState to Stopped, which triggers the normal
graceful-shutdown path.

- Add EmptySince status field to track empty duration
- Clear EmptySince on stop and when players return
- Reuse existing RCON probe's player count (zero extra network cost)
- 4 new test cases covering timestamp, timeout, player-join reset, and
  disabled-by-default

internal/apis/felis/v1alpha1/minecraftserver_types.go

@@ -253,6 +253,11 @@ type MinecraftServerStatus struct {
 	// clears this on stop so the next start re-anchors. Persisted in status
 	// because the two endpoints fall in different reconcile passes.
 	StartRequestedAt *metav1.Time `json:"startRequestedAt,omitempty"`
+	// EmptySince is when the operator first observed 0 online players during a
+	// Running phase (spec §8 idle auto-stop). It is reset when a player joins
+	// or the server stops, so the empty-duration counter starts fresh each time
+	// the server becomes unoccupied.
+	EmptySince *metav1.Time `json:"emptySince,omitempty"`
 	// ObservedGeneration is the spec generation this status reflects.
 	ObservedGeneration int64 `json:"observedGeneration,omitempty"`
 	// Conditions are the standard metav1 conditions (Ready, RconReached, ...).

internal/apis/felis/v1alpha1/zz_generated.deepcopy.go

@@ -118,6 +118,9 @@ func (in *MinecraftServerStatus) DeepCopyInto(out *MinecraftServerStatus) {
 	if in.StartRequestedAt != nil {
 		out.StartRequestedAt = in.StartRequestedAt.DeepCopy()
 	}
+	if in.EmptySince != nil {
+		out.EmptySince = in.EmptySince.DeepCopy()
+	}
 	if in.Conditions != nil {
 		l := make([]metav1.Condition, len(in.Conditions))
 		for i := range in.Conditions {